Lost Fragments

I was browsing through my daily dose of internet when suddenly i landed on this article. It's an interesting article of how we usually forget the simplest yet most wonderful thing in life.

A good relationship doesn't just happen. Couples who stay together for years aren't just lucky. It requires both people to actively care for and work on the relationship, just like a garden.

Communication is Key

Don't keep everything inside. Communicate with your spouse. Let them know what you are feeling and how you are feeling. Don´t be silent. It does no one any good.

Add some Flattery

To break out of the daily grind, be sure to compliment your partner on something - anything. Often people forget to comment on a pretty dress or nice shirt because they see that person every day. That quiet comment can be just the thing to lift spirits for an entire day.

Laugh

When your togther remember to just have a laugh

Find a Nearby Escape

Discuss, decide and go for any interesting locations within an hour`s drive. You might be amazed at what you`d find, and it could be a great weekend getaway!

Not much time together?

If you find that due to work of school/college that you only get a small amount of time togeather then make the most of what you have. Make your partner feel loved and tell them they are loved. There are a lot of insecure people, even if they dont show it!

Watch What You Say

Think before you speak, never say anything out of anger and hold on to the special moment by making him/her know that they mean everything to you.

Wear Something New

Even if you just raid your closet for something you haven't worn in a long, long time, add a jolt of newness into your relationship. It can be great fun!

Wishing on a Star

Look up in the sky at night. Pick out a star. Call her and tell her to look out her window. Describe to her how to find the star you´re looking at. Tell her that every time you look at the star, you´ll think of her, and you´ll make a wish. Tell her to think about you whenever she looks at the star, and to also make a wish. Chances are, you´ll both end up wishing for the same thing.

Day is Done

Share a sunset with the ones you love. If it´s warm out, find a spot with a nice view of the sunset and sit with your loved one.

* Thank them for something they did for you today
* Tell them you´re glad you´re sharing this sunset
* Say "I love you."
* Share something for which you are grateful
* Tell them how much they mean to you

If you, or the ones you love can´t watch a sunset, why not watch a sunrise? Either is equally moving.

Labels: self motivation

Posted by neobita on Friday, April 20, 2007 at Friday, April 20, 2007 | Permalink